Why is offering drinks the first suggestion when asked to be taken out, & Settling

This doesn't apply to all MEN not all have bad intentions

Why is that when a man try to approach a woman the first thing he offers is to take you out for drinks? In my opinion men who have bad intentions and agendas will always plot. And their first agenda will be to offer the woman liquor. "Alcohol does have a real physical impact, but there's also a big aspect of expectancy," What does liquor do to the mind and body?  It makes a woman more receptive when she's under the influence. Alcohol has a dampening effect on the brain's prefrontal cortex area, which normally controls inhibition. This loosening of inhibitions may account for your boosted sex drive after a glass or two of wine. Typically if a mans main focus is to get you to drink, insist on going out for drinks is to get you in the most vulnerable and gullible state. Its like wanting to see how you unfold from your sober state, to getting tipsy and drunk. The more intoxicated you are the more trouble you have processing your location of your environment. It also boost men ego and makes it easy for them to not have to spend so much money on a first date. It’s pathetic that so many guys need the girl to get drunk in order for their game to “work.” If you need her to be a little disconnected from reality to be attracted to you, what does that say? A moderate amount of alcohol to make things a little smoother is fine. But alcohol cannot be a substitute for physical escalation, good conversation, persistence and confident nonverbal communication. When liquor is always the main focus its just a lazy man's guide to try to seduce you instead getting to know you. I feel like a mans approach is everything and as soon as I hear liquor its sends off a red flag in my mind. Liquor should NEVER be the first suggestion in my case in others they may not find anything wrong with it. But that's why many miss those warning signs in the beginning.

Nowadays men don't even ask you are in a relationship or if you have a man. They just go for it, but many women don't care as well, So they will accept the offering not even caring if the man has bad intentions. Many don't care to be dealt with partially, misused, lied to or misled. People have given up so much they are ok with settling  for less, in their relationships, appearance, careers, marriages, friendships and in themselves. Many don't  know how to be alone so they settle for anything. They just have to be apart of something, included in something, tied to something. Even if it has absolutely nothing to do with them or benefiting them. So people will put up with anything even it if hurts and effect them to fill those voids of being alone. What this does is stop your own growth in life, everything in life goes hand in hand and for that this topic will further be continued.