Why Is It Hard To Practice Celibacy For Many ?

This isn't to judge anyone its just a question that always seemed to go unanswered. Many people are single giving the wrong person temporary fulfillment, instead waiting for the right person to give them long term fulfillment. Easier said than done right? We all have fallen short to doing what should be right for us, somehow wrong all the time.I think it is hard for many because many are still sexually tied to the person but don't seem to be in a committed relationship. So many people think they are in a relationship but it isn't, its SEXUAL ATTACHMENT, EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT. Understand what these types of attachments are. Doesn't mean you are together many hold on to physical attraction and don't have much in common. What I mean by that is you can know anyone for a certain amount of time but that doesn't mean you have a mental & spiritual connection with them. Who Cares Right? Long as you still have some type of attachment to them you are some what ok? No because you're not. Were never ok with just a piece of something,Not even half of what you thought was suppose to be yours. So many can lie to themselves and say they are ok with casual sex or friends with benefits. Thing is no one wants to be alone, no one wants to accept the fact of doing the right things and waiting .Anxious for someone to fill the void of being alone, being hurt, let down, lack of love. Abstinence is a challenge for most because when you are already physically tied to that person it is hard to let go. Everything you tell yourself it's all in the mind. you can do anything if you learn SELF DISCPLINE, Doing what you know needs to be done even though you don't want to. I believe men & women thrive off of temporary thrills and men seem to be more visual than women are. So a man can be single and may happen to go without but as soon as he come across a very attractive woman and she happen to try or test him. what happens? His adrenaline gets going, he's tempted, curious, began to have that urge  LUST in his mind of what's that like that temporary thrill & depending on who you are if you are weak for temptation or not you will eventually give in. Always remember temporary lust always delay permanent LOVE.