Everyone who's interested isn't qualified

This is why most miss the signs in the beginning and end up heart broken , bitter or miserable this doesn't apply to all. But majority give themselves to every person that cross their path. Meaning not everyone deserves your conversation, time or body. Cannot be so desperately anxious for anything & everything in life out of loneliness or just for the hell of it wondering what's it like. Have to learn to value YOU & speculate & say damn I don't want to make the same repeated mistakes before and understand if this is good for you or not, how will this impact my life?  What will I learn from it? Will this bring me happiness ? What will you have left for the person whose actually meant for you this goes for men & women. You'll be drained, because you lose these qualities when you have  tried with so many and FAILED. Eventually you'll give up well not all. You'll  fall short & lack faith in love, trust , loyalty, wanting not to commit because you have drained yourself in giving YOU & failed in every person you have opened that door with & to everyone who was possibly interested. All of those different energies & personalities does nothing but drain you. Have to learn you are the catch it's even ok for a man to tell a woman NO fall back baby I am not for you, you are not for me . Why waste your time ? Especially if you have grown why play, why bullshit, this isn't high school why run a person  in circles when you really are not going to deal with them like that.I waste no one time  I honestly do not like to lead a man on I don't believe in wasting my time on things. I value you things and time is one of the biggest for me. When I feel a man is over stepping himself i am quick to say this ain't that baby. Its ok to say No Thank You even for you men but sometimes its apart of a mans ego to know he can get whatever he wants even if he know the woman isn't qualified for his life and what fits him in a mate. Just know every Man & Woman battle with the devil & angel on their shoulder daily and yes we sometimes learn through different people we cross our paths with. Doesn't mean we should open up that door for them, you never know what's behind the surface of things as always said what  looks good isn't always for you.  To Be Continued ......


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